Relationships are about love and attraction. If you are attracted to men or women, it is your soul’s desire to be with that person. Don’t pay attention to conventions that a woman was made for man. That’s simply not true. Yes women help men but it’s not their duty or requirement to be valid. The Bible says that the law was made for men. That is because women follow the desires of their heart. The Bible also says that the sons of the Kingdom will be cast out. In classroom settings boys have been shown not to learn as well without the presence of girls because girls have a mediating effect on the boy’s behavior. Girls are told they are bad for wearing “revealing” clothing and body shamed for not living up to men’s expectations.
Men complain about what women don’t do for them but you never hear men complaining about women being the aggressors. The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy. That sounds like a man to me. Thieves, hunters, and rapists. Adam was cursed in the garden of Eden because he disobeyed God and ate from the fruit of the tree of good and evil when God told him not to. Eve was cursed with painful childbirth but no one is making Eve stay with Adam. When the Bible was written there were more humans that just Adam and Eve. She could have loved a woman. Instead she chose to be with a man and was cursed with childbirth. Her son Cain became a murderer later. That is because Cain was the soul of Adam. Cain was cursed as an unhappy wanderer or a nomad. Even comes from the word Eve and mad comes from the word Adam. Adam was mad because he cursed his own soul by disobeying God. The passages used to say homosexuality is bad in the Bible is written by Paul. It said that women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.
This means that women exchanged a natural, comfortable and pleasurable experience with a woman for an unnatural, violent exchange with a man. The Bible does speak against a man lying with a man as he would with a woman as an abomination because when a man violently hurts and rapes a woman it is an abomination. It is an abomination to hurt another person. A man raping a man violently is an abomination as it is for a man to rape a woman.
Marriage is legal ownership of another soul. Unless the feelings are mutual, this is wickedness. People don’t want to be owned, they want to be loved. Love is not sacrifice, it’s mercy. People shame same sex relationships because they are convicted in their own consciences that their heterosexual relationship doesn’t work. It’s possession. This is the harlotry the Bible speaks of: when a woman prostitutes herself to a man and willfully hurts her own soul.
Look at the way a woman’s face lights up when she sees her best friend. Isn’t that what love is? Sex is about mutual pleasure and passion, not coercion and force. Jesus never condemned homosexuality but he did say that in heaven they will neither marry or be given into marriage. I’m telling you the kingdom of heaven is now. Do what makes you happy and don’t hurt others. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
The term “homosexuality” in the Bible means narcissism or sexuality that is for self at the expense or pain of another.